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Leave-in · Not Your Mother’s

Not Your Mother’s Curl Talk Leave-In Conditioner

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9 opinions from 9 people

Positive
7
Mixed
1
Negative
1
How is the Curl Score calculated?

We read 2 public Reddit discussions and logged each person's opinion of each product as positive, mixed or negative, and members add theirs when they review a product here. The Curl Score puts those on a scale of 1 to 5: every opinion positive would be 5, every one negative 1, and an even split 3, with a mixed opinion counting as half positive. Passing mentions aren't opinions, so they don't count, and each person counts once per product. Every brand is scored the same way, but these are comments, not verified purchases or a survey. Sources and method

The verdict

A soft, moisturising leave-in that most reviewers like, though it's become hard to find.

The full verdict

Reviewers call it a holy grail and say it makes their hair so soft and moisturised, with consistent results. One says it works so well but they can no longer find it. One reviewer couldn't try it properly because the scent was so strong and lingering, and another found it OK but has had better.

Best for
A light leave-in under Curl Talk stylers

Reviewer experiences

A representative mix, good and bad, from the commenters.

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  1. PositiveReddit comment

    I like the Curl Talk leave-ins.

    u/formerly_1013r/curlyhair, 2026Original comment

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    I just commented this but yes! I think the naturals line has been discontinued, which I loved for my hair (not a huge fan of the curl talk shampoo/conditioner but do like their leave-ins). But I got so frustrated I switched to granite fructis shampoo/conditioner

  2. MixedReddit comment

    OK, but I've had better.

    u/Nearby_Ad_4372Fine, curlyr/curlyhair, 2026Original comment

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    The only product I like of theirs is the refreshing foam. I find it works well on my day 2 hair. Their gel was too hard for my fine, curly hair. The mousse always left a weird texture. The leave in was okay, but I have had better.

  3. NegativeReddit comment

    The scent was so strong and lingering I couldn't fully try it.

    u/CurlSquirrelr/curlyhair, 2026Original comment

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    Couldn't fully try the leave in conditioner because the scent was SO STRONG. I can deal with some fragrance, especially in wash out products. The scent lingered too.

  4. PositiveReddit comment

    The leave-in works so well, but I can't find it any more.

    u/riverserrar/curlyhair, 2026Original comment

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    Their leave in conditioner works so well in my hair and I can't find it anywhere anymore. 😭

  5. PositiveReddit comment

    My holy grail.

    u/dymphna76r/curlyhair, 2026Original comment

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    The leave-in conditioner and flash freeze gel are holy grails for me. I like the curl cream and their bond building products. Also, the fragrances of these products are light and pleasant.

  6. PositiveReddit comment

    I love the leave-in conditioner.

    u/leahbrewer001r/curlyhair, 2026Original comment

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    I love the leave in conditioner!!

  7. PositiveReddit comment

    It makes my hair so soft and moisturised.

    u/toasterbath__r/curlyhair, 2026Original comment

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    i love their leave-in conditioner. it makes my hair so soft and moisturized. i have to get more soon lol

  8. PositiveReddit comment

    I love it.

    u/beandadenergyr/curlyhair, 2023Original comment

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    I don’t know if they changed the formula in the Organic pink line, but last time I tried it there was so much buildup in my hair. I do love the Curl Talk leave-in, though.

  9. PositiveReddit comment

    My favourite brand; consistent results.

    u/TotallyWitchinr/curlyhair, 2023Original comment

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    They are my favorite, I use the leave in conditioner, mousse and gel. Surprisingly the gel holds but doesn’t feel or look like gel in the hair. I get the same result pretty much every time with this product, but I also have a strict routine, haha. I used to use their shampoo but I’ve switched to Saltair.

What reviewers say

  • Praised: Soft, moisturised hair
  • Praised: Consistent results
  • Complaint: A strong, lingering scent, for one
  • Complaint: Hard to find in shops

What reviewers use instead

Other brands the same reviewers mentioned. A single mention is a lead, not a verdict.

Marc Anthony

  • Strictly Curls Leave-In Conditioner Positive

    The first step of my routine, followed by Not Your Mother's mousse.

    u/Mama-DragonflyOriginal commentShop

  • Strictly Curls Leave-In Conditioner Mixed

    Made my hair curlier but also frizzier; the next day it was poofy and less curly than with Milkshake leave-in.

    u/Wildflower_XOXOriginal commentShop

  • Strictly Curls Leave-In Conditioner Positive

    I use a mix of both brands; the Marc Anthony leave-in is my first step.

    u/Mama-DragonflyOriginal commentShop

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Marc Anthony

  • Strictly Curls Leave-In Conditioner Positive

    I like it; I use it with Not Your Mother's shampoo and conditioner.

    u/trev4_a86Original commentShop

  • Strictly Curls Leave-In Conditioner Positive

    I've liked everything I've tried; the leave-in is a regular repurchase.

    u/thxitsthedepressionOriginal commentShop

  • Shampoo/Conditioner Mention

    Price tip: larger bottles at Target cost the same as the much smaller bottle on Amazon.

    u/BareKnuckleKittyOriginal comment

Kinky-Curly

  • Knot Today Leave-In Positive

    I love it; lightweight and works really well. I skip curl cream as it's too moisturising and weighs my hair down.

    u/charcat-xOriginal commentShop

  • Leave-In Mention

    Part of my mix-and-match routine.

    u/charcat-xOriginal commentShop

Aussie

  • Coconut Leave-In Conditioner Mention

    I use it as the leave-in step before Curl Talk Cream.

    u/beagoodbearOriginal commentShop

Cantu

  • Leave-in conditioner creams Positive

    Gives me better frizz control than the NYM gel.

    u/DumpstahKatOriginal commentShop

Garnier

  • Fructis shampoo & conditioner Positive

    I switched to Garnier Fructis shampoo and conditioner out of frustration with the NYM changes.

    u/formerly_1013Original comment

Maui Moisture

  • Lightweight Hydration Shampoo & Conditioner Mention

    Part of my mix-and-match routine (I used to use only Not Your Mother's).

    u/charcat-xOriginal commentShop

More from Not Your Mother’s

The brand review
  1. Curl Talk Curl CreamBest likedStyling cream23 positive·5 mixed·4 negative
  2. Curl Talk Refreshing Curl FoamBest likedFoam12 positive·2 mixed·1 negative
  3. Naturals Gardenia & Mango Butter Shampoo & ConditionerBest likedShampoo & conditioner4 positive·1 mixed·1 negative
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  1. Curl Talk Curl Activating MousseMousse23 positive·8 mixed·18 negative
  2. Curl Talk Frizz Control Sculpting GelGel10 positive·3 mixed·8 negative

Best liked: rated by at least 4 people, more than half of them positive.

How we collated these reviews

Drawn from 9 comments in 2 Reddit discussions below. We read every comment in each, logged each product a commenter had an opinion on, and classified each opinion as positive, mixed or negative. This is public commentary, not verified purchases or customer ratings. Our full method

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